Monday, August 26, 2013
Self Management through Psychospiritual Techniques: Links - Yoga and Inter-disciplinary Research
Saturday, August 24, 2013
Vision into Reality
Sunday, August 4, 2013
The Flying Yogi
Flying yesterday was quiet a yoga challenge. I don't normally get up at 430 for any reason but I had to in order to catch my 830 flight. I've been looking forward to this trip for quite a while now. Almost to the airport I receive the message my flight has been delayed. Arriving I find a long queue waiting to resolve their tickets. So I find the Starbucks nearby and grab some oatmeal and coffee knowing all have a long wait.
I joined the que, open up my oatmeal seed to practice some deep breathing while I eat and wait. The first thing I notice are what I call the recruiters. They are the people that feel they need to tell others about how much trouble they're being put through. They are recruiting others to commiserate with them and form a group. I know that this is the beginning of mob mentality. The only thing that a mob can lead to is trouble. I now need to practice 'allowing'. I allow other things, people, places and events to exist simultaneously while I remain relaxed.
As I approach the line I notice how hard the airline employees are working and how each new person needs to explain what an inconvenience a three hour delay is for them. I decide to practice 'granting beingness'. This technique acknowledges that I am interacting with a human being not a worker bee. So I think the airline worker for all the hard work they are doing and how quickly the line has progressed. She pauses for a moment and looks at me and thanks me. This isn't in order to get the results I want but to have a human connection. After she reroute me through to Florida I make a joke about how it's better to get there later because it will be cooler we both laugh and share a moment.
I decided to treat myself to a chair massage since I know it's going to wind up being a very long day. After hunting through the entire airport for something not fast food to eat I make it to the terminal to board the plane. I can feel the tension of everyone on the plane as I find my seat. The guy sitting next to me sit down and I imediately realize he is going to take over the arm rest next to me. He proceeds to speak through the seat to the gentleman in front of him about business during the entire boarding process. After an hour of contorting my body to accommodate him I try to find a way to claim my space so I can sit up straight. But he is doing the guy thing where he refuses to budge so I'm left with feeling as if I'm in some sort of battle over the inability to keep my body straight. I try tension and relaxation exercise and Ananda muscle stimulation exercise in my seat. But I can feel the lack of food and tiredness pervade my body and mind. I know I will have to work hard at letting go on this trip.
We finally land and I have 30 minutes to find something decent to eat which is nearly impossible in Dallas Airport. I settle on what I know will be a horrible salad and a quick glass of white wine. The guy who had been sitting next to me on the first flight comes in and gives me a judging look because I had said I had a quick connection and needed off the plane. I try practicing 3 part breathing.
By the time I board my second plane to Orlando I am glad I had the glass of wine. Sitting next to me is a small energetic girl and behind me and even smaller and more energetic boy and his older sister. The boy imediately begins kicking my seat while screaming at his sister and mother. I find my headphones and put on relaxing music to try and stay calm. By now the tiredness is really getting to my mind. The girl next to me gets out her laptop and I am not sure if I am more surprised that she has a laptop at 9 years old or that she knows to ask when the wifi is available. Once she decides I am not the ogre that I feel like I am she then proceeds to try and get my attention by squirming around to get in my peripheral vision and stare at me. I pray that they serve wine on this flight. I smile back at her with a crooked smile and look out of the corner of my eye at her to acknowledge I know she is there I am friendly but do not feel like playing. In my mind I see a vision of my guru and picture him making best friend with this little girl and getting her to laugh and play since her mother is ignoring her. But I dismiss the image knowing I don't have the energy. Somehow I manage to fall asleep. I wake up just in time for wine service and the boys behind me deciding that if he's really loud he will get whatever it is he wants. There is only Chardonnay my least favorite wine so I pass on to red wine and the steward tells me they only have merlot which I like even less then Chardonnay. So I roll my eyes at him put my headphones back on and try to read my book on meditation. A little while later I see a small bottle of Pinot Noir being handed to me with a glass and a knowing look from the kindly steward. I think God for the small gift.
Finally we arrive late to Orlando where my friend been waiting on me for a while. I allow a few trams stuffed full of people to go ahead of me. After the crowd thins I make my way to my friend. Her loving arms and sweet smile seem to take away the hours and miles. I know that although I feel beat up I saved myself a lot of mental anguish by being a flying yogi. I am so looking forward to this sabbatical of meditation and yoga. Hopefully it will help me on the flight home. I am thankful that I have learned to practice yoga off the mat.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Stick Shift Life Advice
Learning to drive a stick shift has been enlightening. Today I learned how to manage stop and go traffic. I use the term manage loosely.
Basically I have been driving a stick before I really should. It's a challenging thing at first but I'm handling it. It's even more challenging not reacting to stalling in stop and go traffic. People are in such a rush and not used to cars stalling out. They zoom up on you thinking your going to go and stop suddenly in your rear. It's exhilarating.
Today I realized I keep killing the car by slamming on my breaks instead of the clutch and the brake. I then shift into neutral and pull the car to a stop. Shift to first and go. Any time I'm uncertain about what to do I remember my new mantra. 'Pause, put it in neutral, take it to first, make double sure it is in first, breath, break if needed. '
After not realizing I was in third instead of first from takeoff and feeling like the engine was going to shoot out from under the hood I knew I needed a mantra.
Then I realised it was familiar. Non reaction is a work in progress for me. When I feel a reaction coming up in me to something that is creating a reaction now I tell my self to step back. Same thing as shifting, get out of gear into neutral.
I'm going to merge the two, stop, get into neutral, assess the situation, when ready, move forward.
Happily shifting forward,
Namaste, Troy.
Sunday, July 28, 2013
The world is F!#*ed up. .
I attended a Sally Kempton workshop in Berkeley last Sunday and she ended it with the funniest line.
The workshop was based on the Gita, one of my favorite Yoga texts. Heck, I named my cat Arjuna. None of the information was new but she presented it in a new way to me. She used four challenges presented to Arjuna as the basis of the course.
It was interesting, but I love her book on meditation and thought the talk was going to be based on that subject plus the air in the studio was so stuffy and everyone seemed so serious. My Guru is funny and gets us to laugh a bit but the people here were not laughing at Sallys jokes.
Then she hit us with what I call a wake up. If your a presenter and you feel everyone is drifting or becoming comatose a good tool is to change the tone. So out it came from this sweet mediator:
"The world is Fucked up so just do the best you can".
I'm going to have to steal that line.
Doing the best I can is my personal mantra. I have a critic mind. People tease me for always changing my environs, What they don't know is its because my mind is consistently telling me how things, including myself and others can be better. It's very frustrating. Meditation had helped a little. Now when it points out this about Me I counter with "The world is Fd and I'm doing the best I can".
See you on the mat,
Troy
Sunday, July 21, 2013
Soul Adventurer
The best thing about traveling is seeing what I'm missing at home. Walking around Rockridge last night, a lovely little village slipped in between Berkley and Oakland my mind was doing little back flips. All the diversity of Manhattan but at a laid back California pace. Had a fresh made to order garlic free Samosa to go from an authentic, super clean walk up then around the corner a Greek yogurt soup and Baklava.
Ok, in list of places to live goes Rickridge. Off to meditate with Sally Kempton.
Saturday, June 22, 2013
an Yoga Keep a Person Healthy?
Fitness in general is a vague term used to define people being healthy and capable of performing the physical feats they want to on a regular basis. This includes being able to physical move and exercise without pain, delay, loss of breath, strength and similar. Traditionally, many use cardiovascular exercise and weightlifting or resistance to develop a state of fitness. However, yoga can do the same as well.
Yoga helps improve health in four different ways:
- Cardiovascular performance
- Strength-building
- Flexibility
- Improved body composition
Many of yoga’s forms, movements and exercises uniquely designed to settle, strengthen and improve cardiovascular performance. The ability to breathe better and stronger is improved over time through coordinated breathing exercises will holding positions, stretches and more. That, over time, helps create a stronger internal system for bringing oxygen into the body. It also helps reduce heart problems, cholesterol buildup, and weak blood vessels. The more pressure the body pushes through the cardiovascular system, the stronger the heart and related blood vessels become as a result.
Strength
Clearly, long-term yoga redefines the body and its ability to hold positions, weight, angles and forms. Using the body’s own weight as resistance, the entire body from the core to the legs and arms build up capacity. That in turn provides strength to do more and more, even when a person grows older. Pulled muscles, strains and sprains, and ligament twists don’t happen near as much, even when active, because regular yoga provides consistent stretching and strength-building year round. The muscle-building also helps a person burn more calories everyday as well, reducing or preventing weight gain with a good diet.
Better Flexibility
Yoga is well known for developing good flexibility in practitioners, especially in the back, core, and limbs. This type of stretching and position-holding helps people perform better without tissue or ligament tears that become common with older age. Increased stretching also allows the body’s muscles to handle greater strain without weakness as they can be stretched farther without damage.
Overall Body Makeup
Yoga provides a comprehensive approach to body development and balance. As a result, it will, over time, change a person’s body composition to perform better. This includes increased muscle mass, better flexibility, better breathing and reduced fat. It also helps of course to adjust one’s diet and not engaging in damage behavior such as smoking. That said, yoga can definitely create a far better physical makeup with consistent practice and application. That, in turn, improves mental confidence and capacity, which improves mental outlook as well. The two become a circle of improvement, moving a person to a better and better stage overall.
In Summary
Yoga isn't a perfect solution for overall health maintenance. People still get sick, catch viruses and grow older. However, the activity can definitely improve a person's overall health, which in turn creates long-term benefits. These improvements do contribute to a less sedentary lifestyle and a better physical maintenance of the body. That also helps contribute to enjoying life more, staying healthier, and a better mental outlook. When so much of being fit and healthy involves balance of the body and mind, yoga is definitely an approach worth looking into for long-term health.
